Single millionaires hire Patti Stanger to find their soul mates, love of their lives or trophy wives.  She introduces them to a group of men or women that she thinks are perfect matches for them.  From that group, the millionaire chooses one to go on a date with.

On tonight’s episode, the bachelor was Anthony, a man that claims to have had his heart broken and doesn’t trust others easily.  He has some concerns that his date is only interested in his money, so he lies to her and says he isn’t rich and has a gambling problem.  He shows her a place he claims to live in that looks a mess, and his bedroom consists of an air mattress.  His date says she doesn’t care if he doesn’t have money.  Then he reveals that he really is a millionaire and that it was all just a test.  If I was Anthony’s coach, I would look into his trust issues and ask:

• What are you afraid of?
• Is it a real fear?
• Is it worth hanging onto that fear?
• What are you missing out on by not trusting others?
• Do you trust yourself?
• What can you do to build more trust with yourself?
• Why do you test people?
• Do you really want people to pass your tests?
• How do you think people feel when you test them?
• How can you build trust with others?

Until Anthony works on these trust issues, he will never be able to trust himself or others and they won’t be able to trust him.

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